How I Declared Myself a ‘Rejection Expert,’ and Other Stories of Creative Reframing
by Arthur Klepchukov
Given my 78 submissions and 57 rejections this year, I found this timely reminder about the power of reframing.
I had a conversation with a friend recently where she told me that my whole “self-doubt demon” personification thing doesn’t really speak to her. She said it feels shallow, almost cutesy, and not like real coping.
It made me realize that if that’s all I was doing–personifying the voice of doubt in my head and making light of it–it probably wouldn’t work that well for me, either. There’s something deeper that has to happen.
Getting Comfortable with Failure
In my first post on Rejection Survival Guide, I wrote the following (emphasis from now):
I know what it’s like to be in the trenches. I’ve been there. I’m still there. I may be there forever. So I’m getting comfortable, setting up shop, and mapping this place out for those of you who haven’t gotten to know this place like I have.
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